When it’s all said and done, then be done. Stop apologizing for telling the truth. There. That’s my philosophy of life. Well, not completely but its close. I.m exhausted of being scolded by someone only to her, later, they didn’t really mean wht they said. Then why was iy said? Surely at some point it was believed to be true. Maybe it’s because instead of coming across as a caring compassionate person, the speech resonates with a total disregard for the other person to even the point of hate. So yes, if you remonstrated with someone , even for a brief second, you meant it, Trying to undo the knot just tied makes you look even worse to everyone round,