Death and Celebrity

So, Dolly Parton, a legendary Country and Western entertainer, died today. Although I wasn’t much of fan of C&W music, I grew up with her as my parents definitely were C&W fans. Yes, I remember the Porter Waggoner Show in the 1960’s and Dolly’s regular appearances. In fact. she may have been my first infatuation as a teenager. I really didn’t follow her career but still it’s sad to see someone of that kind of iconic (is it okay to say that?) stature, gone. It really brings home, at least to me, that we’re all gere on a temporary basis, some more temporary than others, but all the same at some point.

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The Comfort of Nothing

I recently watched a video on YouTube of this young woman questioning an established evangelical pastor about Christian belief and the afterlife.the young woman identified herself as an atheist which didn’t seem to affect the pastor one way or another but her claim of belief in nothing after death did drive him to a level of frustration. I found it interesting that she told him that it was comforting for her to believe that there was nothing after death: no blissful heaven or threat of eternal fire of hell. she said that if she were a believer, the thought of someone she knew, not a believer, was suffering in eternal fire while she was in heavenly bliss, was not a comfort to her at ll and she thought it strange that anyone would think it was comforting. For course the pastor kept repeating the same old tired (but tried and true for them) gaslighting techniques they’ve used, developed, and perfected, for centuries. But people are wiser to these swindles in the last few decades because the availability of other points of view not just on the credibility of any religious belief, but on almost every subject known to human kind. Suffice to say that this brought back to me the idea of that comfort of nothingness and the strributed quite of Mark t=wain when asked about his thought of dying where he said, “I do not fear death. I had been dead for billions and billions of years before I was born, and had not suffered the slightest inconvenience from it.”  We should all pay attention to ourselves rather than depend on what others think of us when being confronted by those who have other intentions. At the end of the video, the pastor has become trusted enough with the young woman to tell her, definitely, that she was going to hell.

How nice. And comforting.

Let Him Go

It’s time for someone to say it, just in case anyone is unsure. Charlie Kirk is dead. There. I said it. It’s horrible what happened to him and hopefully, his murderer will see justice. The reason I’m saying this now is from shear exhaustion from seeing all of the posts abut him or his widow. I don’t care about what Erika is doing or might do and I’m vertain that Charlie is not looking down on us from heaven.

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Is Death the End?

“I do not fear death. I had been dead for billions of years before I was born, and had not suffered the slightest inconvenience from it.” – Mark Twain

What happens to us after death? It’s a creepy question, isn’t it, but don’t most of us wonder if this life is it or if, depending on what religious belief followed, there’s some sort of afterlife whether it is reward or punishment, after this life ends? Everyone does, yea believer and non-believers. As a non-believer, I choose to not think about it because, like the quote above from Mark Twain, death is, well, nothingness to me. I think of it as having been in a deep sleep where I don’t remember dreaming, then waking up. I woke up from, well, nothing, in my mind. when I dies, I return to just that. Nothing.

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Believing in the Afterlife

 

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I was thinking about this post I recently wrote in response to some questions from a reader. One of the questions, if in fact not the main question was about talking to your children about death, as an atheist. I personally don’t believe that there’s anything beyond this life but as I responded, no one actually knows.  That’s the best answer anyone could possibly give and anyone that says for sure that the absolutely know what occurs when we die, is either lying or fooling themselves. But that started me thinking about this Pew Research Poll of atheists I read a while back because for some reason, I was certain that within that poll, I had read that there were atheists polled that did believe in an afterlife. I wasn’t disappointed when I revisited the poll.

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